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My mom passed away last night; she was recovering on the eighteenth floor of the Montreal General Hospital from emergency surgery meant to remove remove scar-tissue from her intestines. Her dear friend Andrea was with her during the last minutes when her heart seems to have unexpectedly failed; I arrived at her room last of all, some hours later. I only had opportunity to sit next to her on the bed after she passed. I held her hand for some time, ran my fingers through her hair, and kissed her temple before the nurses arrived; it's all I had time to do.

Diane Linda Cordner, age 54; teardrops7


"Oh jati, my jati,
How far you have gone...
Where are you?"


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notebuyer
Jul. 20th, 2006 06:28 pm (UTC)
Condolances
I know my voice is a bit distant to you now, but I send my condolances, and see reflected in your love for her a lovely person, whose passing will interrupt many conversations and cause many more to intensify.

The traditional mourning plant for us is Ignatia amara -- see if you can find a branch to display or a leaf to throw into a pitcher of water (either practice is acceptable, oddly enough -- my grandfather's funeral saw several people bringing pitchers to the house.)

Take care.
fire_fox01
Jul. 20th, 2006 07:07 pm (UTC)
I know you may not know who I am but my name is Sharon and I knew Diane online. I just wanted you to know that she was one of the most special, wonderful people I have ever met and she touched many people and made them happy. I am going to miss her very very much and please let me know if there is anything I can do or even if you'd just like to chat. She was very proud of you.
ayoub
Jul. 20th, 2006 07:36 pm (UTC)
My most sincerest condolences... Your Mom, for the time I knew her here on LJ, was a wonderful person, full of love, and time for all around her...

It fills me with sadness to hear of her passing, and you have my deepest sympathies.

May you find the strength to take you through this trying time...
sephirot
Jul. 20th, 2006 11:04 pm (UTC)
Hello, I know that you don't know me at all but my name is Pina and I wanted to extend my most sincere condolences out to you. I only just stumbled upon your entry about your mother's passing through a new online friend fire_fox01 but I know that if I were in your place it would be warming to know that there are people out there sending energy of empathy and peace to help you through this time. namaste.
leo485
Jul. 20th, 2006 11:24 pm (UTC)
Hi Colin
Safe Gentle hugs. Your mom will be greatly missed!
I know I will always keep her in my heart and I know that you and your famiily will as well.
she was a strong,couragous,caring,loving woman with a beautiful soul and I was proud to call her my soul mother. Know that she went peacfully and she did not suffer.
I gave Allison my e-mail along with Ian and my phone number...
if you ever need to talk you can e-mail me at andreabrunet@hotmail.com
I am online everyday
BIG Safe Gentle Hugs to you
Scincerely
Andrea
mighty_rontor
Jul. 21st, 2006 01:17 pm (UTC)
I knew your mom through another on-line friend, fire_fox01. The news of Diane's passing is a great shock to me. She was a very sweet soul. I'll miss her. The world seems a bit grayer now.
ignusfaatus
Jul. 22nd, 2006 02:22 am (UTC)
im sorry. PEACE and WARMTH from me the strange stranger
quintessenz
Jul. 22nd, 2006 01:55 pm (UTC)
My condolences
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